Is it necessary to have sex on first night?
63My view
There is always a debate on this topic. Some people say " It is necassary" and some say "it is not".
For me its always good to have sex at any time of the day but when comes to the topic and talks about marriage and sex then have to use my mind. I just noticed that most of the people I know did some preparations before going to bed on 1st day of their marriage. They tool some tips from old and experience people, though they had sex before their marriage. Is it really a great point of concern in todays world where most people have sex before marriage?
For me a night with good memories will be enough, if I don't have sex at that perticular night. It will be depend on the lady who will become part of my life. If she feels comfortable then its ok, but if she doesn't then I won't mind it at all?.
I would just try to give a little comfort and time to speak her mind in front of me, not just the pressure to tell friends, what happened on first night.
What you guys think about it?
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i am 40 and met a 22year old i i told him i was intrested no disrespect and invited him to my place it was nice the conversation was great and really all i wanted was a sex relationship but i did not tell him but for him he stated he do not want to have sex cause he had some court issues and would not feel right at the moment we cuddled and kiss and he wanted to taste it and we did it but it felt like i mess up cuz wen i text him he says dont get caught up let's keep it on a friendship level and i just end it once and for all
\Brenda Scully 2 years ago
I think, it's best to wait til second